Early 21st century in Spain
An average of 70 women to the years murdered by their partners.
Official statistics say
that 12.5 % of women over 16 years old
suffers physical or sexual violence
And that one in four teenagers
It suffers psychological violence.
Why?A good part of teenagers and young people
that has grown in equal rights for men and women
Do not identify macho behaviors.
What a weight still gender stereotypes
or the myth of romantic love.
How to solve the sexual division of labor.
Who is assuming it responsibility
of domestic tasks and care
What kind of machismo do we have?
It is a machismo that is not seen, or that perhaps we do not know how to see...
Machismo looks every day and at all times,
In each place and in each corner.
What happens is that we do not identify it as machismo.
We have learned to live, to live with him,
And we only questioned determined expressions
When we consider, at this time, they are excessive.
What we question today any doubt
A few years ago it is completely normal.
In our country, being part of Europe,
therefore from the West,
elementary and basic freedoms
Of the citizens, they are assured.
Another thing is that in the field of customs
They are not yet prevented by activities, ways to judge,
ways of presenting,
constant interference
In freedom and in the life of women.
The meanings and feelings, emotions,
They are more difficult aspects to change.
And because we are surprised
that current teenagers reproduce
That type of stereotypes of relationships
Maybe we are too elopathy
with which we have already changed.
It is a macho society but not a society
to affirm neither in the laws in ideas
that men are superior to women.
So what is macho is society.
I would like to give some example.
It is macho or sexist because it is a society
that turns to form differently to boys and girls.
And this does it with hope, with certainty
that then they will occupy different functions in society
and they will give different senses their lives.
When we analyze what happens and how the population lives
And what happens in everyday life
We realize and the empirical evidence all indicate the same
that there is inequality between men and women
And therefore this inequality
What places us is in a pseudoiguality context.
There is an equal discourse but not practice.
It is an important issue,
We would have to speak it more and raise awareness among people
so that it did not happen so much.
But, I don't know, teachers don't speak it,
They only speak it when they come to make talks or conferences.
To sustain an unequal society
You have to use violence.
Violence in a broad sense, not only physical violence.
Sometimes violence is not physical
It is another type of violence.
It would work as follows, in this triangle or pyramid,
Always smaller to greater intensity.
In the base we have the ideas.
What ideas are those that support this structure of power and violence.
-Create more than the woman.
-Create more than the woman, más listo,más fuerte, más inteligente,
What idea is, what's the name of?
-The macho idea.
-Machista, machismo.
It is the ideology that supports this structure of power and violence
where one group exercises the other group on dominoes
I am a soccer player here in my city,
When a girl, an arbitrator girl arbitrates you, you see it weird.
And your colleagues see everything weird.
And the public gets with her.
When there is a failure, insults...
You are playing and listening to the parents say
"You had to be", these things.
Those who have a little more head
that we are already a little more mature, we face parents,
saying “hey, please, we are playing,
who is doing your job "
And we shake hands as if he were a normal and current referee.
What are people who are very closed
And not, that the woman has to be,
who can't play football, can't be a referee
And you can't do men's things.
-We are, psychological violence.
You are silly, you are not useful, see how you are dressed,
Look at who you leave,
Teach me your mobile to see what you tell you friends or your friends
Do you sound like these things? -Yes
Among adolescents, this type of psychological violence
works through control.
I was a couple that that couple
I didn't have much respect and that.
I spent three years later trying to get away from him
But I couldn't, I always came with me or was looking for me.
When I was better, I was always looking for me.
And my mother found out how I was, it was wrong,
And my mother came and said "stop going with him,
And I didn't want to love him too much,
But I went to psychologists and everything, and psychologists helped me.
Jealousy say they are a love test but I see that as already...
Maybe you don't go with her because we know how it is,
If I know that another path can take you and that...
I see that a love test jealousy of “Where are you,
Who are you, why, why haven't you come with me,
I don't see that about love, I see that from selfish.
You don't have to be jealous, jealous.
Oh, you have mirao, oh that have mirao...
But sometimes, unintentionally, it escapes you,
To say "what are you doing".
Because I do not recognize that I am little jealous,
For jealousy, for fear of losing it is already.
Where the healthy influence ends,
Legitimate influence in intimacy relationship
And where gender violence begins.
Is difficult to specify.
Above all, because we have transmitted the idea of love
that was created 200 years ago that is the idea of romantic love.
The idea of romantic love has some wonderful elements
that we can keep,
such as love is important,
that in love you have to set deep aspects of the person.
Perfectly, those ideas are compatible with health
and with equality.
But there are other ideas that are not.
For example, "whoever wants you will make you cry"
Not, who well loves you does not make you make you feel good.
Another very dangerous idea:
For love you have to be willing to give everything.
Even supporting violence?
Not.
On the contrary we would have to convey them
What love and violence are incompatible,
As our Criminal Code is currently recognized.
The idea of romantic love is the idea
which is built on a cultural reference.
Jealousy, which are the main argument to act in this way,
Jealousy are not love, jealousy is control,
Love is trust and trust means
that each of the semi -expiring people as it is in the relationship
and from there interacting.
But that idea that I have to control you
And that you have to control me for me
Because that is demonstration of love is a cultural construction.
Nots venden muchoen los medios de comunicación
And in cultural products that love is suffering.
And what we want is to disassemble that perverse association
Between love and suffering.
For example disassemble ideas as...
"Those who fight the most those who are most desired".
Also that idea that...
"Who does love you, will make you cry".
They are justifications of domination processes,
based on violence,
that somehow they are not helping us at all.
Nots juntamospara hablar del amor romántico,
To disassemble it, to analyze it,
And we do a double work in the political and social sphere,
and also personal.
In the charlillas that Doyhablo de la Cinderella.
The woman was there undergoing labor exploitation.
We could call it that...
Because I said she was tired delimpiar chimneys and such...
And the guy, instead of saying: well, there you stay, I'm leaving,
I rent an apartment with my friends, I look for a job,
I study something for versi I can improve, in short...
But what Cinderelr decides to be the blue prince and save it
and solve life and solve his problems,
that is very comfortable.
The myth of the midfield I think is one of the myths
What has done more damage to us, women.
This idea that there has to be someone, even in Japan,
that complements us perfectly, like a zipper.
All cultural products continue to sell us the idea
that love is salvation
And it is also the solution to all problems.
For example Cinderella, right?
Cinderella what it does is wait,
wait for someone to solve life,
Wait for someone to get out of that well.
We are still sending this idea
that if you wait,
If you have patience and stay pretty,
Someone can save you.
Somehow those messages calaranmucho in us,
Because it is sold to us a very beautiful music,
With very beautiful actresses
And with characters that they surrender to love.
Physical violence.
Not solo hay hombresque se creen en el derecho,
They feel superior to women,
They are doing well that in this society
Well, they have menosoportes,
They exercise control or psychological violence on them,
but they even believe in the right to physically mistreat them
When they consider it.
-The physical violence that is part of man towards women
It is to have control,
To make that woman respect her, or something like that...
Because you have an idea of what it is to be a man and live as a couple,
And as you understand that she is worth less than you,
You will not respect it,
You can even mistreat her, to maintain her,
so that it does not go beyond what...
-In this aspect of physical violence, if a woman sticks the man
You don't look so...It's good, something will have done that man...
-Yes good, the problem...
Yes, the subject always comes out.
What about women who stick to men.
Women, violence that they usually exercise
It is more of a psychological physical,
because among other things it has no fortress.
There are cases.
There may be any case that some woman has mistreated a man.
But according to statistics, 98% of cases
It is a violence that men exercise towards women.
There are 2% of this female violence towards men, but it is 2%.
To make you an idea in 10 years,
From 2004 to 2014
In Spain, I am not talking about a distant one, I am talking about it,
official data, because there are people who say that it is much more,
approximately, up and down number,
700 women have been killed by their partners or former partners.
-Creorate a case
At the end of a conferences, an older woman brings me
And I thank me to be to give the conference
And suddenly it stays as a little instead and tells me:
I will not think that I have come here
Because my husband mistreats me.
Not, no, yo no pienso nada.
Not, no, es que quieroque quede muy claro
that I have come here because this issue interests me a lot,
To me, my husband has never put on me on me.
And he tells me: Of course, I have given reason.
Then if a man mistreats his wife and partner
It's because she has done something
that deserves that violent correction.
Still in society, weigh a lot, that reference
about what the woman does stop doing.
I have several scenes that I usually interpret
The role of dominant man,
Machista who does not attack
But the woman is clearly noticeable.
From small micromachism scenes
to others in which I justify
that why you cannot lift the tone of voice in a discussion,
Or why I will not be able to look at him mobile...
Or why I will not be able to control your friends if I am jealous of them...
But what problem is there what I send.
If she doesn't know how to do things, I'll have to teach her right?
Sometimes, the tone of voice rises to say some things,
And I know that it is not right but that...I will have done something wrong, right?
It is normal that if something does not like to get angry.
That happens to everyone.
Couples fight.
And that does not mean that they want less.
And if someone says otherwise, lies.
And why you can't lift your tone in a discussion.
I don't really shout.
It's my nature, I'm a man.
Not le digo nada a mi familia.Nor to my friends.
Because although they intend to help me to press myself
And that bothers me.
-I'll already told him again and again
that problems have to solve among us.
-The others do not have for which.
Must be like this.
(ITS NORMAL)
Start from the most elementary,
From a gesture, a look, a silence,
Things that, little by little, is like a snowball,
Little by little, little by little.
And then the tragedy arrives.
And then the tragedy is what we are shown.
When tragedy occurs
Or when we realize that our friend has gone through all that
because it reaches a point that is that it is already too evident.
But well, and behind all that what's there.
There is a lot of experience that must be shown, you must know
To be able to treat it.
I have many concerns, many ideas,
I watch the news
And I build my own opinion and then say:
And this one who tells him.
And then, you find initiatives like this
And the truth is that it is great
because you find people young,
mature, willing to speak to do everything,
also how it is very enjoyable, from humor,
From the theater, from art...
-She trials please...
The first figure that we score the music scene is here.
-I don't reply me
Do not replic me,
And you take it, but you don't shake it so much
is that you do something...a rare thing here...
It is very difficult to get into the role of a person who mistreats,
especially when I am a very quiet kid,
I have no character, and it costs me a lot but...
I put myself in the situation of saying what would I do
If I had that tandéspota personality,
so to reach that level.
-You are left over.
Don't replicate me.
It's this: Don't replicate me.
And when you get to the end
I don't know what is the phrase you say in the end
You take it again and not before.
One, the Cogs.
And the last sentence, the second, the strips
-Voucher...Love I don't understand why...
-Sweetie.Stop, take air.
Honey, I don't understand why we had to see those people.
-It's my friends.
-They are your classmates,
to those who do not see a long time
And that does not even call you to ask how you are.
-But I wanted to see him.
-Sweetie, no puede ser que siemprehagas lo que a ti te dé la gana.
-But Luis if we always do it that you say-
-I don't reply me.
I have also given myself how that friend of yours looked at you.
-Who?!
-Not te hagas la tonta.
In the end you are all the same.
You like to fool all uncles.
-But what are you saying.
-I say you are some foxes.
-Luis, you're happening.
-I am the one who is happening?
Are you going to tell me Tuelo that is right and what is wrong?
You know nothing!
You are useless!
It is quite beautiful because we do,
to star in the scenes
We have also been we have created them.
Students eating together commenting scenes
Let's see if I know Gabino's.
Who starts talking, are you?
-What, what does it ask me to marry?
-Ah, that...
-Sweetie, ¿quieres casarte conmigo?
-But what are you doing, how will a man ask for a man?
-Uy is true, what nonsense, how I could think that...
-Al see, since I am taking advantage of:
Honey, do you want to marry with me?
-Uy yes, love, of course, you are a man.
-That's, we have made improvisations
And from there the director has created on paper.
And we have already form
We have given our personality.
We have contributed it that we saw more convenient.
One day we arrived, we don't sit.
Do you know what micromachism is?
Nots quedamos algunos...What is that...
We started commenting
And the truth, we all said
is that the truth, we all have examples, of micromachisms,
of our daily life, of our friendships,
of our relatives we had examples...
- Give me, give me, that I already take care.
- Of course, do you think I do it?
- Of course not, you would not be able!
When we go out to the girls, we see those offers of:
come, girls and free glasses,
But boys 10 euros to enter a disco.
Well that's a bit weird,
If you do not have to pay to enter and consume a product
is that the product is really...
-But how are you going to pay?!
- (all) waiter, please account
You go down the street, for example,
And any man "chista":
Hey, what, where are you going!
Things like that, I really bother me.
Not me agradan son cosas que...
- You have many possibilities to suffer workplace harassment.
- Well, it's normal, right?
- Well there is your office, you can start today
- Forward!
The jokes also degenerate.
The woman!How women are going to drive!
Women drive very badly!
Always those topics,
How good we have instilled today, they have done a lot of damage,
We are not really able to get out of there.
-I have learned and I have been really assumed that it is
Machismo and Domiosobre the woman,
But by the two,
by man and woman.
- I have cleaned the whole house, I have scrubbed the dishes
I have made the purchase...
- Ok, yes, yes.But and the food...?
- I then prepare it
- Thank you, honey.- I love you.
- And I you.
.There are many details, many words, that escapes us
And it shouldn't be like that.
-The new generations are that we would have to change this.
Well, we start, without music and Luegolo we mark everything with music, okay?
-The micromachisms are there
and are accepted by most of us
As something normal and everyday,
something we don't give importance
-Not nos damos cuenta.
-Not lo vemos.
-Or we don't want to see them.
-And however, many couples live with them.
-The behaviors are accepted.
-And what is clearly an abuse by part of man
It ends up being normal
-In romantic.
-Perfect and ideal.
-How, I want to continue with my partner?
I believe that what happens with micromachisms,
or what we have called
are that they are many times so assumed
that ourselves question us count
that that happens to us something important,
It is something serious, it is something that may be shared,
or be counted.
Nots llegan muchísimos casosde hostigamiento callejero
In different degrees,
From compliments, comments, street persecutions,
much more serious episodes.
But that comes a lot,
And then also many complaints by the image of women
in publicity.
There are a lot of people who complain
how old roles are still reflected,
models in which man carries the singing voice
And women are a mere object
or the woman seems to be part of the dare,
more than a main actor.
This is the first tweet that came
To report the messages that were on the clothes.
Children's clothes were identified with a message
of "Being intelligent as Dad"
And girl's clothes was "being pretty like mom".
A lot of people got angry,
A lot of people showed Sudescontento.
And in the end Hipercor announced to the poured hours that I withdraw.
Yes, I think it's a success.
Seeing the pressure, too, of the people
which can be done through the blog, through the Twitter account,
For companies to realize that in the end
This has an impact, right?
Go to a toy store.
When you see all the war, war toys,
Because they are guns, they are swords,
They are robots, they are monsters...For children.
Soccer balls, soccer costumes...
For girls, sexualized dolls, hyper sexualized,
Cocinitas, more dolls, all pink, for them all blue.
But what is this?
This is to say: we are going to manufacture in one way and girls from another.
And this is what we can call that it is a sexist society.
Because it is determining abilities, behaviors
and the elections of people according to their sex.
It is leading them: you here and you there.
Not hace falta ser pedagoga para saberque el juego es determinante
para aprender normas y valoresFor children y las niñas
In every society.
Since childhood he teaches you that girls with Rosita Princesa
And the most fighting children do you know?
Like the children have to be more strong and the most lazy women
With princesses and love...
-And for example, a little girl,
You tell a little boy: oh, how strong you are, I don't know what.
But a girl is not told, how strong.
You tell him, woe to him, you seem like a princess, they are not told the same
Parents, already for ideology of times ago,
Parents transmit that idea the children, I think.
In greater or lesser quantity but...
-The parents, at school, in the media,
In religion,
There are a lot of sites where these ideas are transmitted.
If my son wants to play the combao to dance,
Or my daughter play football I'm going to support her because she is my daughter,
And I have to help her...
that does not feel inferior to anyone.
A girl can cry,
A child can hit and get angry.
And these expectations become a second skin,
that we do not see,
We are not aware of this second skin,
it has been created...
Through all scenarios, of all interactions,
that are already part of who we are,
of what we are psychologically, of what we are socially,
But also what we arebiologically.
And they also become expectations many times
automatically fulfilled.
If a child believes that he cannot play with dolls,
that cannot take care of people,
that he cannot attend to his children is a baby,
although initially did not have any biological or psychological,
That expectation, that prophecy was a reality.
It is a cultural construction
that molds us as subjects
In a basically unconscious process
In the first years of our life.
And therefore our personality, formed in this cultural framework,
It has a margin of change, yes,
But it is not a change or so obvious, neither so automatic, nor so rational,
And here I think many times
There is the limit of gender and feminism policies,
because we imply that if I send a message
And people understand it rationally
The problem will already end.
If I tell you: this is abuse, don't do it.
I will think, well, people will understand it,
But the thing is not like that.
Because many times meanings,
our desires, what we feel like, what puts us,
These unconscious wishes are largely marked
that escape from rationality.
Somehow, people are much more than a man, woman,
heterosexual, lesbian, gay, trans...
We are unique, unique beings,
But as social beings we need to hug a category
make meaning
And that I could be socially recognized.
But in the end, people are much more.
And in this sense we could affirm in fact
the same expectation and demands to reproduce
The identity of men and women a form of violence,
because of the many ways to feel, to express ourselves, to desire,
of being in the world,
They limit us to fit one box or another.
Instead of being able to explore
Our way is unica in the world.
Stereotypes, we are actually talking about stereotypes.
Not lo que nos gustaría que fuera,
If not what stereotypes there are
about what it is to be a man about being a woman.
-To work...
-As house or outside?
-Both.
-What else.
-What about children.
-Well children...
-Cook and clean
-Cook clean...Being a landowner right?
What else...
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-Ser high, thin and beautiful...
-Ser beautiful and thin...the beauty...
Guys, what is a real man?
Not lo que a mi me gustaría ser.
What is valued as a man?
-Well, a man who respects women,
that helps them, who understands them.
Ok, this is fine, it's great,
But in our society you believe
That is what is most valued to be a man.
-It depends
-In society and I believe what a man is most valued is
Let it be strong, not cry for example,
-Fuerte, don't cry...
Not sé, yo a eso...I don't care if they say
Because I have some world to some things,
And sometimes then everyone was
I believe that this has always been said that that is not reality,
Everyone cries, come on, sure...
-Yes I have seen "3 meters above the sky",
I have seen "twilight", all that...
But more than anything better not to tell
Because as you tell your friends that you have gone with the bride
Or with a friend to seey treat you like the fag, you know?
What are you doing that uncle, I don't know what?
And they put the cross already in class, and they will say:
Ah this, he looks, he saw the other day this
And he started crying in the cineching this movie
And as you already tell, give yourself for losing now,
Because they don't have respect for you anymore.
-What happens when someone does things that do not fit with her dress...
pink or blue,
For example when a chicajuega to football...
They marginalize or what they tell her...
-Lebiana, Marimacho
-When I was your age,
talk about sex or have many bride as...
The King of the Fiesta, right?
Don Juan, the one...He was the leader of the group, yes or no?
-You see.
But if a girl is with many boys is a...bitch
-Exact, the same thing, the place, or sex
For some it has a positive value
And for others it has a negative value.
That is also problematic the two parties,
because they also say things like that.
-Yes, of course, among ourselves, we limit ourselves.
If someone does not behavior is expected
The same group will crush you.
That is how theseocialization works or this scheme.
I look at everyone and we all go the same,
With righteous pants, long hair and a tight shirt
We are all the same.
Not puedes cambiarlo,sería muy difícil cambiarlo.
Yes, maybe I want to wear wide pants
I could put them once
But not anymore, because they can make you come from what they can tell you,
They can hurt you.
I don't feel strong to change one thing.
I don't.
Maybe with other people, we agree, yes,
But I can't.
Being a man and woman, in the end what it is, is to be ideal.
An ideal culturally marked
that we try to achieve, but we never arrive.
From our sexual characteristics
We are attributed to us that we have to identify and behave
According to certain stereotypes.
But somehow we never arrived completely this genre.
Because it is always at risk.
There may always be a hand movement, a desire,
An erotic dream, which suddenly
Tocoque our idea of what we know that we should be,
know how to do or desire, for example.
Let's do an exercise to make visible in this group
What kind of girls,
What kind of boys are there.
Here is a continuous line that goes to the other end,
that would be here, that the non -traditional woman would be,
which is the opposite of that
And here I don't want to give you a track,
I want you to think, what does it mean to be here.
Whenever you want...
Well, where would your women be.
Where your mother would be.
-Here...
-He has changed a little.Not mucho pero ha cambiado un poquito.
Ponte, put on.
And your grandmothers, make a mix among your grandmothers,
Let's see where...
-My grandmother here...
-Voucher, antes, hablábamosde la perspectiva histórica.
Your mothers have already made change regarding their own,
But you make another.
Well that's the important thing to see.
Now put yourself in your position.
At the historical level we see women,
They no longer want this role of traditional woman,
housewife, exclusively.
The problem is that many boys are still looking for this.
Woman who is no longer.
And this is where the problems come.
You are looking for a woman who no longer exists,
because they are there.
So now let's ask what you have put here...
-Not sé, es que quiero tener cosasde aquí y cosas de allí.
I don't want to be just one thing.
-Voucher, tú buscas un equilibrio,me parece bien...
When you finish your studies, what will you want to do,
stay home or work.
-To work
-The majority.And why do you want to work?
-To win a salary.
-He just for a salary?
-To they don't have to keep you
-I want to be an independent woman
Not having to depend on anyone,
to be able to work for myself and pay me my things,
I don't have to have a husband that works
To keep me and my children.
What I think is that the trip is empowered,
conquering power, power means...
It is not the real power, which also, but the power of oneself,
to decide for the same,
To be able to say here I am,
This is what I want to do in my life.
And if you want to accompany me, whoever is,
Well, be an independent and autonomous person...
What is happening, that girls are changing,
Young girls are changing when they meet men
with which the situation translates violence, in control,
in something uncomfortable,
in something that do not satisfy expectations,
Well, they leave the relationship.
And it's what we are seeing,
that there is an inclusive increase in violence.
We have spent 2006, with the macro survey that was done,
that were four hundred thousand cases of year,
To more than seven hundred milcon the macro 2015 survey.
And that situation is being enhanced in the younger people
why?
Because being man fundamentally is not being a woman.
Not está muy bien definidoqué es ser hombre
And the contrast identity played a lot in favor
of male identity.
Because if being a man, I no longer are like you
And you are no longer like you were,
What am I now.
And if above all that changes, it translates that you seem more
To what I consider that I have to be
I still miss more,
So there is a disorientation in many boys.
And how they are solving them some of them,
Well, retreat on safe positions,
as the tradition, custom,
As time has pointed out,
And in that more retrograde position, more previous,
resort to violence,
try to control the situation,
submit the girl to her dictation, at her discretion,
Through violence.
The boys, the same.
What a liar.
-Here están diciendo que mentiros.
-Doid someone manages?
To who?
-Al Javi.
To him, to the gray jacket.
And the Dani too
-Voucher, vamos a ver si ellos estánde acuerdo o no...
He doesn't know why they put it here.
Why do you think they put you here?
-Not sé, han dicho porque soy machistapero no lo soy.
-And why do you say it is macho?
Because he always says: women to scrub and things about those.
-And is so or not?
-Shoes yes, but joke...
-Jokingly...
-Well but jokes you know that sometimes they build realities, right?
Do you bother you to tell you that?
-Yes
-Well, because today you learned something:
that bothers them that they tell him that.
Same from saving you do it again, right?
-I have put myself here
Because what you said has to be a man, for example,
Strong, don't cry, work,
Ear money, for example, well aspects, because I want to have them.
But others, for example, have to keep your wife
And that they have to do everything, because that does not.
I think you are taking steps,
Maybe slowly than them, I think, that's my opinion,
But we also take steps...
-In my house I think there is a lot of democracy, and everything,
I even know how to cook, and I know how to do women who do women...
-I haven't even put myself in the medium,
But neither does it not in the traditional form
Because I think going too much there, a little...scary
I don't know how to explain it,
that you can become a little...
-Tonto why?
-What do you tease or something, what do I know...
Well, sometimes we are afraid to get out of the scheme.
Therefore it is important on this trip of men
towards co -responsibility
and towards the ability to connect their emotions.
That is what you have to do, from my point of view.
Not es que los hombres no tengamosemociones,
We have emotions just like them, what happens is that
It is not well seen expressing them, right?
What struck me was all the women left
to the non -traditional and the men too.
And there are actually men who make jokes,
And I include myself because it is normal, everyone does it,
And you always do the typical joke no, although it is not funny...
I liked to see how the children of my class
They thought they were not macho
When they really have some machismo.
Couples have to meet.
And it's very difficult, there are many women
They don't want to be caregivers,
And what do we want to say, what they want to combine
Being working and caregivers for the same,
But they have to re -enclose a man
that also has that attitude.
That attitude and that possibility.
Because sometimes he has the attitudes but he has it very difficult,
They have to face, it has to be very proactive men,
With a very strong character,
Because the family will have to face, to friends,
to co -workers and to the bosses,
apart from the fact that everything is to face
what is marking politics,
what is marking them media, everything,
everything is marking that he,
In the background what has a supplier
And what you have to do is take care, thus, circumstantially,
Occasionally, help the mother.
You said before, most, that I wanted to work and earn money
also like them,
But if we only work who takes care of taking care of children.
-To the best there are no children
Well, there may not be children,
But in the hypothetical case there are children...
-My mother for example life has worked
And after the nursery,
In the afternoon, when my mother still worked
My grandfather has taken me, my aunt, my...
-Of course, grandparents sometimes make paper...
-I think they should distribute the work that each one has in life,
When one works, the other takes care of the boy or girl.
My mother has always worked, and my father too,
And I have always stored my grandparents,
When I was little,
And when my parents arrived later I went with them home.
-Of that, most, what you are saying
is that grandparents have supplied little that role as caregiver.
But you think they have cared for you as mothers...
Let's see the girls.
-I don't, because my mother has taken care of more
And my father was always working.
There are kangarides too, but for that you have to work,
You have to work, you pay to the kangaroo
to take care of children...
-But later, when the child grows
You have not had so much bond your child,
You will not have grown with your child...
-That's what I wanted to ask,
That link, do you miss it?
-Well, it depends...
My mother has always worked more than my father
And I have many more bite my mother than with my father.
-Voucher, en tu caso es al revés.
But it is not usual, or yes?
Almost all families have difficulties
To organize care.
I think what happens is that there are some reasons
that can apparently be obvious
as normally wages are usually greater,
between what are, some certain...
I don't know how to call it, gender imprints, "you do better,"
that kind of things,
In the end he ends little by little
The certain degree of balance could be achieved
and they are opting for relatively little time
to a situation that would be similar to that of our parents,
For simplifying, no.
And from there be normalize everything,
because also many things in everyday life are organized
For women to take care of
And then nothing happens.
Then at the end a vicious circle
that the only way to break it
It is from my point of view
Clearly break that vision of unavailability
that you have in women's companies.
And the only way to break it,
And it can also be done with relatively simple alegislation,
is to change the schemes of permits.
And make the permits the same.
Because there is no reason for not, none.
And in that case,
Companies, businessmen, who hired would see
that men and women are the same available or indispensable
In that period of time.
And also in the culture of men we have to dedicate ourselves
because for example to go to pediatricuando you have to go.
I do it a little in an intentional way.
I say at work: I have to go to the pediatrician.
Although almost no man says it.
Not lo digo con orgullo.
I say it because you have to change them things.
If not, it seems that the men nuncalle the pediatrician,
And come on, but we don't say it,
Because we think that, and we don't think about it,
That will make us look more available at work.
So, you have to change those things.
Until we review this work division,
until they are redistributed,
Until there is no job responsibility
The inequalities of gender will persist and machismo will persist,
why, because the sexual division of work is built
In a values structure
What does it are prestige
The paid work
and discredit domestic work and care work.
The latest statistics at European total work load level
They tell us that in the case of...
of people who work full -time,
men and women, the total workload, that is,
add the full day the work,
The time dedicated to domestic work
and the time dedicated to care work,
In the case of Women School 70 hours a week
And in the case of men it does not reach 60.
Therefore we are talking
of a difference of about 10 hours at work.
Hence the importance of time, time uses
When we talk about gender inequalities.
Why?
Having the house in the head
and being present in the work is this double presence,
There are two presences
that simultaneously are part of this female experience
in daily life.
All this is dynamic.
If a law changes.
Suddenly he makes a paternity permit for men
four months,
The thing is going to be reduced, not, that we are going back,
that generoretrocery policies, because the thing goes...
I am optimistic.
I see the society in which I was adolescent
And I compare it with the society of now and is less macho;
In some things, maybe in others yes.
Of course we have advanced, of course we tend towards equality,
Of course the role of women in our society
It is increasingly present in the public sphere.
But, obviously,
The evidence shows that there is still a lot of inequality,
that there is still much machismo.
That the equal machismo, because it is not politically correct,
It is not so visible but functioning more invisible,
Micromachisms, how men socialize
And we make power part of our lives.
And we reproduce it in our environment and in our circumstances.
-Sweetie, que están llamando-Voy
-Sweetie, abre o qué...-You can leave...
-Not puedo, estoy ocupado
Not se puede ocultar eso,hay que mostrar lo que está pasando.
There is abuse, there is aggression, psychological and physical,
There is a clear domain.
But seen that,
We are going to try under the humor key, through laughter,
by exaggerating the characters,
Focus the message of the worst to the best, that is,
looking a little that linear progression,
that the worst at the end of the best
and they leave the theatrocon good taste of mouth...
-But honey, they are calling...
-Not, no se preocupe,ya hemos entrado nosotras
-But hear, how have you entered my house
-Arror! -What happens here
-According to the data we have here,
You share this Pisocon Paloma Rodríguez.
-Yes, ¿y qué?
-Well, this is not his floor.It is your floor
-Well, it's a way of speaking. -Correct way of speaking!
-Okay, how have you entered our apartment
-Through the door
-But Paloma, you have left the door open again...
-But if you enter you, was you...
-Error!He is wrong again.
At the first to change your partner,
When you really were the one who left the door open
-But let's see...Who are you?
-Avance good treatment
-But explain me, please, what is this good treatment
-Ity who apparently is leaving aside.
It's about looking for equality in the couple in the most honest way
and respectful possible.
-To here has a pack with possible things you will need
"A pack?" Let's go, do you know how to cook?
-Well, I feared it, here has a pan
-Are the washing machine?Either? Well take
-Are you know how to iron the clothes?Either? Well, go practicing...
-And here you have a apron
so that it is not stained is busy in the tasks.
-Okay, I think they are right,
I can't turn my back on good treatment, I'll try to do better...
But not because you tell me, it's because I love you honey.
-That's my man...-Fine...
-Ah, but I imagined this will cost me something, right?
-Arror! All this is completely free.
-Yes, eso es lo mejor de todo,
That good treatment costs anything!
I feel satisfied to direct this work.
The message is, they are, the good treatment.
It is the name of the Campaignay is what we want to talk about.
In principle we propose a series of situations that occur,
that are unfortunately part of society,
But the message is always directed, at the end of the work,
It is the ones that we transmit, towards optimism,
Towards the positive message, good treatment,
and be treated equally.
Bravo!!
Thanks to these workshops,
We are seeing how teenagers, young people,
They are learning to recognize violence
that if they are not physical violence, it is not a blow,
Nor are they good treatment,
So thanks to this work they are learning to recognize them,
to detect and fight them in some way.
¿Resolverlo? Not lo sé,
The figures are repeated every year,
of women killed by sexist violence, at least in Spain,
And we are a grain of sand in the desert
But we understand that what we are doing is doing well,
We see the work that young people do,
We see how they speak, how they debate
And we see then the reactions of adolescents
They observe as a public
What is happening in the stage
And we see that there is a communication and a big emotion.
And that's where we head.
Our society today wants to eradicate the machismo, sexism
and gender violence,
He wants it deeply.
But it is often not aware of the depth of change,
of the difficulty of change.
There is a contradiction,
There is a very strong voltage between what we want to be
And what we are.
What we want to be is very important
Because we have the capacity, to address it,
to create culture,
that the media inform, that families speak,
that structuring schools,
that the administration rewards them,
give them the necessary resources for this,
that adolescence rebel to change
And really be the same in opportunities, in rights,
in capacities.
But this costs more than we believe.
If democracy does not come standard, equality is not.
They are ethical attitudes that you have to learn.
If nobody teaches you, if you don't see them in your family,
If your age group shares them,
If the media may dissuade you.
If politics does not force you to face equality,
You will tend to reproduce what you see topical
In the places where you move.
Evil behavior, bad, does not dissuade easily.
You have to be very attentive from many corners,
where this behavior occurs deter.
If the whole society does not put a behavior dissuade
Obviously the behavior occurs.
Even when they are extremely designed they occur.
The murder is in all criminal codes
And not for that reason it stops producing.
Important changes in education have to be made,
important changes have to be made throughout the system.
Obviously this is not changed one day to another,
That is why we talk that machismo
derives from the patriarchy system that we live
And without changing this system
It is difficult for us to change daily machisms,
with those we face every day.
I think that at this moment we are in regression,
With which we have much more work now, perhaps, than 10 years ago,
women.
With which it is important, not to lower the guard,
And above all educate,
and look at what they have with young people,
With young couples again...
¡Sin women no hay revolución!
Feminism is tradition based on modernity
who affirms that no sex of having privilege about another.
Nor belong to the female sex of meaning
No decrease in rights, in freedoms
nor on the opportunities of a human being.
This is that sexon has to punish a human being
A minority of age in any aspect of his life.
Feminism calls men.
Feminism is true that it has worked hard,
Because it is true that the first thing that feminism has to do
is to correct inequality
and face from the individual position to everything that is social,
The private and the personal is political and have a social component,
But feminism, as American feminists say
He is the one who trusts the most, because he thinks they can change.
I consider myself feminist
Without feminism there will be no equality and without feminism there will be no revolution.
The discovery of Superbacteriandm1 in Delhi's water samples
on guard to the health authorities.
The center for...
Disease prevention is
of a very dangerous superbacteria.
A lethal bacterium of nightmare.
The news fell like a bomb, we didn't expect it.
They are called superbacteria
And they are organisms resistant to conventional antibiotics.
They have jumped from the Environment hospitals.
And American expert
infect about two million people.
And cause the death of more than 20.000.
The doctors were very sincere,
They told me that it was very likely that the infection did not disappear.
¿Nunca?-Yes.
Not hay demasiados ensayos clínicossobre el tratamiento de esta bacteria
There is nothing published.
They were about five bacteria
And they said that all these infections were resistant to antibiotics.
The more we use antibiotics with patients,
The more we introduce them to the environment,
there are more opportunities for these bacteria to become resistant.
Then in the 90s and in the beginning of this century,
We started seeing resistant bacteria
against which we had no thing or nothing.
Not se estaba desarrollandonada para tratarlas.
Generalized resistance to current antibiotics
and the resignation of pharmacists
to generate effective medications against superbacteria,
for profitability reasons,
They raise doubt about silos governments are prepared
To face this serious public health problem.
Some say that research on antibiotics
it's running out.
I would say something worse.-Really?
I think it's terribly close to be a drought.
One of the biggest catastrophes of our time.
That means that we have arrived at the end of medical practice
With medications.
"A nightmare bacterium",
Next week in TV documents.